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建筑师乔治（凯文·克莱恩 Kevin Kline 饰）很早就和妻子罗宾（克里斯汀·斯科特·托马斯 Kristin Scott Thomas 饰）离婚了，与儿子山姆（海登·克里斯滕森 Hayden Christensen 饰）之间的关系也并不乐观，不如意的工作 干了几十年，不满意的房子住了几十年，而就在不久前，他又被查出患上了不治之症。落入了人生最低谷的乔治暗下决心，即使死期将近，也不能就此沉沦。 乔治决定重新修葺房屋，他找来山姆，希望他能够助自己一臂之力。尽管老大的不情愿，山姆还是半推半就的答应了，与此同时，罗宾也开始天天给辛苦劳作的父子二人送饭送菜，一家三口的关系渐渐恢复到了从前的幸福和睦。就当三人沉浸在家庭带来的快乐中时，乔治的生命也已经走到了尽头，然而对于此事，山姆和罗宾竟然一无所知。
长篇影评
1 ) 我想告诉我的小孩
我们大家都在去往天堂的路上，我们彼此只是在这条路上相遇相伴。因为早晚我们每个人都要分别到达自己的天堂，所以请好好珍惜这短暂的相遇。等我到了我的天堂门口时，我会向你告别，谢谢你的陪伴，你也要向我告别，不要难过，为我祝福。
我们每个人都有终点，终点只能一个人进入，所以要爱，要珍惜，要感激在路上陪伴你的人。到终点的时候要微笑着说再见，不许哭。
我们每个人都有终点，终点只能一个人进入，所以要爱，要珍惜，要感激在路上陪伴你的人。到终点的时候要微笑着说再见，不许哭。
2 ) 给自己的生命建一个屋子
我常把自己当做一个房子
我就是住在那里面的的人
不必很大 不必很漂亮
只需是我的
我成为了该成为的人
给自己建立生活 给自己建一个房子
很简短的一个电影。阐述生命，阐述爱，阐述生活，60分钟足矣。
最近一直看黑白电影，到处是蔓延的黑，痛苦，仇恨，迷茫。我以为我的生活也是这么的黑白，直到看到了这部电影，我想生活很美好，生活里充满了色彩，向日葵会永远向着太阳。
每个人都是一个精灵，我们不需要很多的才华，不需要很多的金钱，不需要太长的期限，就像那个房子，不必很大，不必很漂亮，只需是我的，那就足矣。
我就是住在那里面的的人
不必很大 不必很漂亮
只需是我的
我成为了该成为的人
给自己建立生活 给自己建一个房子
很简短的一个电影。阐述生命，阐述爱，阐述生活，60分钟足矣。
最近一直看黑白电影，到处是蔓延的黑，痛苦，仇恨，迷茫。我以为我的生活也是这么的黑白，直到看到了这部电影，我想生活很美好，生活里充满了色彩，向日葵会永远向着太阳。
每个人都是一个精灵，我们不需要很多的才华，不需要很多的金钱，不需要太长的期限，就像那个房子，不必很大，不必很漂亮，只需是我的，那就足矣。
3 ) If I am a house.
I always thought of myself as a house. I was always what I lived in. It didn't need to be big. It didn't even need to be beautiful. It just needed to be mine. I became what I was meant to be. I built myself a life. I built myself a house.
With every crash of every wave, I hear something now. I never listened before. I'm on the edge of the cliff, listening. Almost finished. If you were a house, Sam, this is where you would want to be built. On rock, facing the sea, listening, listening.
With every crash of every wave, I hear something now. I never listened before. I'm on the edge of the cliff, listening. Almost finished. If you were a house, Sam, this is where you would want to be built. On rock, facing the sea, listening, listening.
4 ) 我们的信仰
翻译太烂，也汇集到戏里戏外的种种纠结问题当中。
这片子也许是美国的主旋律，但它起码具有真实的品质。婚姻、亲子、职业、毒品、癌症、性，各种错乱迷离，在碎裂的镜子中映射出一段段反美好的人生。
这是一个关于拥抱、关于拥抱的缺席和拥抱重归的故事。不徦装、信仰爱能在绝望之后抚救哀伤，是美国式的价值观最动人、有说服力的部分。
我是真的痛了，我是那么爱你。表情不必夸张，只是续继你的心愿，只是站在你站过的地方，让我们重新爱上对方。
这片子也许是美国的主旋律，但它起码具有真实的品质。婚姻、亲子、职业、毒品、癌症、性，各种错乱迷离，在碎裂的镜子中映射出一段段反美好的人生。
这是一个关于拥抱、关于拥抱的缺席和拥抱重归的故事。不徦装、信仰爱能在绝望之后抚救哀伤，是美国式的价值观最动人、有说服力的部分。
我是真的痛了，我是那么爱你。表情不必夸张，只是续继你的心愿，只是站在你站过的地方，让我们重新爱上对方。
5 ) 「Quotes」
「Everything about you is my business. What you smoke, what you sniff, what you swallow, it's all my business.
↓
I've been using since I was 12! You're also unbelievably stupid, you know that? You didn't give a shit about anything I did up until now!
↓
Well, I'll apologize for everything but today! Today I give a shit!」
「You know the great thing, though? It's that change can be so constant that you don't even feel the difference until there is one. It can be so slow that you don't know that your life is better or worse until it is. Or it can just blow you away, make you something different in an instant. It happened to me. Build this house with me.」
「Do I still Love you? Absolutely. There is not a doubt in my mind. Through all my anger, my ego. I was always faithful in my Love for you. That I made you doubt it, that is the great mistake of a Life full of mistakes. The truth doesn't set us free, Robin. I can tell you I love you as many times as you can stand to hear it and all that does, the only thing, is remind us... that Love is not enough. Not even close.」
「Sometimes things happen for a reason. You know, something bad to force something good.」
「You know you were dying from the start?
↓
We're all dying from the start. I just got moved to the head of the line.」
「You selfish fuck. Having me here, trying to get me to like you?
↓
No, Sam. I wasn't trying to get you to like me. I was trying to get you to love me.
↓
Well, congratulations. 'Cause you fucking pulled it off!」
「I always thought of myself as a house. I was always what I lived in. It didn't need to be big. It didn't even need to be beautiful. It just needed to be mine. I became what I was meant to be. I built myself a life. I built myself a house.」
「With every crash of every wave, I hear something now. I never listened before. I'm on the edge of a cliff, listening. Almost finished. If you were a house, Sam, this is where you would want to be built, on rock, facing the sea. Listening. Listening.」
↓
I've been using since I was 12! You're also unbelievably stupid, you know that? You didn't give a shit about anything I did up until now!
↓
Well, I'll apologize for everything but today! Today I give a shit!」
「You know the great thing, though? It's that change can be so constant that you don't even feel the difference until there is one. It can be so slow that you don't know that your life is better or worse until it is. Or it can just blow you away, make you something different in an instant. It happened to me. Build this house with me.」
「Do I still Love you? Absolutely. There is not a doubt in my mind. Through all my anger, my ego. I was always faithful in my Love for you. That I made you doubt it, that is the great mistake of a Life full of mistakes. The truth doesn't set us free, Robin. I can tell you I love you as many times as you can stand to hear it and all that does, the only thing, is remind us... that Love is not enough. Not even close.」
「Sometimes things happen for a reason. You know, something bad to force something good.」
「You know you were dying from the start?
↓
We're all dying from the start. I just got moved to the head of the line.」
「You selfish fuck. Having me here, trying to get me to like you?
↓
No, Sam. I wasn't trying to get you to like me. I was trying to get you to love me.
↓
Well, congratulations. 'Cause you fucking pulled it off!」
「I always thought of myself as a house. I was always what I lived in. It didn't need to be big. It didn't even need to be beautiful. It just needed to be mine. I became what I was meant to be. I built myself a life. I built myself a house.」
「With every crash of every wave, I hear something now. I never listened before. I'm on the edge of a cliff, listening. Almost finished. If you were a house, Sam, this is where you would want to be built, on rock, facing the sea. Listening. Listening.」
6 ) Gone gone for ever down
There is a river called THE RIVER OF NO RETURN
Sometimes it's peaceful and sometimes wild and free!
Love is a trav'ler on THE RIVER OF NO RETURN
Swept on for ever to be lost in the stormy sea
I lost my love on the river and for ever my heart will yearn
Gone gone for ever down THE RIVER OF NO RETURN
在纽约的暴雨闪电中， 有人欣慰拥抱， 有人绝望亲吻， 有人在雨中独行。
我喜欢Woody Allen的眼神， 真挚而又无奈， 我们会走近， 也会离开， 会前行， 也会停留，在美好或绝望情感中真实地活着。
心理学家Willam James这么写过：
“we must let our feelings go, and pay no regard to them whatever. To wrestle with a bad feeling only pins our attention on it, and keeps it still fastened in the mind: whereas, if we act as if from some better feeling, the old bad feeling soon folds its tent like an Arab, and silently steals away.“
他是想说情感不是本质不变的， 而心中的信念才是，我们可以改变自己的生活来改变情感.
最近读的两本充满激情的“商业"书 (37signals 写的Rework， Seth Godin写的Linchpin), 充满了这样的想法： 像一个人一样去改变世界， 改变自己。
Life is a river of no return. But who cares. 我们在乎的只是去体会和改变， 以自己的想法。
Sometimes it's peaceful and sometimes wild and free!
Love is a trav'ler on THE RIVER OF NO RETURN
Swept on for ever to be lost in the stormy sea
I lost my love on the river and for ever my heart will yearn
Gone gone for ever down THE RIVER OF NO RETURN
在纽约的暴雨闪电中， 有人欣慰拥抱， 有人绝望亲吻， 有人在雨中独行。
我喜欢Woody Allen的眼神， 真挚而又无奈， 我们会走近， 也会离开， 会前行， 也会停留，在美好或绝望情感中真实地活着。
心理学家Willam James这么写过：
“we must let our feelings go, and pay no regard to them whatever. To wrestle with a bad feeling only pins our attention on it, and keeps it still fastened in the mind: whereas, if we act as if from some better feeling, the old bad feeling soon folds its tent like an Arab, and silently steals away.“
他是想说情感不是本质不变的， 而心中的信念才是，我们可以改变自己的生活来改变情感.
最近读的两本充满激情的“商业"书 (37signals 写的Rework， Seth Godin写的Linchpin), 充满了这样的想法： 像一个人一样去改变世界， 改变自己。
Life is a river of no return. But who cares. 我们在乎的只是去体会和改变， 以自己的想法。
7 ) 生命如屋
A surprisingly good movie about family relationships.
男女主角都是实力派著名演员。连配角都是明日之星: 扮演儿子的海登·克里斯滕森因本片获得了金球奖最佳男配角提名，后来又出演过"Shattered Glass", "Jumper", "New York, I Love You"；扮演邻居的Jena Malone （“Into the Wild”）后来出演《傲慢与偏见》中的Lydia，给人留下了深刻印象。
评分：8 out of 10
男女主角都是实力派著名演员。连配角都是明日之星: 扮演儿子的海登·克里斯滕森因本片获得了金球奖最佳男配角提名，后来又出演过"Shattered Glass", "Jumper", "New York, I Love You"；扮演邻居的Jena Malone （“Into the Wild”）后来出演《傲慢与偏见》中的Lydia，给人留下了深刻印象。
评分：8 out of 10
虽然逻辑上有很多瑕疵，但是最后还是被狠狠的感动了。Christensen演得不错，能和Kline拼一拼，出场的扮相很惊艳啊。好多年前就想看了，总算有片源了。
这么好的片子怎么从来不知道
好久没有这种感动，我想生命里美还是占大多数。
从父子两一起抡大锤开始，到影片的最后，我哭的稀里哗啦，这部影片，就是一催泪弹！
Everything happens for a reason，and love ur mom and dad isn't enough，u have to make them know，maybe just one hug。
▤「I always thought of myself as a house. I was always what I lived in. It didn't need to be big. It didn't even need to be beautiful. It just needed to be mine. I became what I was meant to be. I built myself a life. I built myself a house.」
On rock,facing the sea,lisent.
随着年纪渐长 看到至亲因病逝世这样的故事 就忍不住老泪纵横袅~~~~~同时，觉得很写意是~~~~有一所房子 建在岩石上 面朝大海 随意飙尿~~~~~
故事比较模式，将死的父亲重视生活。但是好在导演处理的很好，情感到位，画面美丽，节奏引人入胜
hayden was born to play whiny boys
好嫩的海登，还有进取号船长，还有某吸血鬼电视剧主角，好可爱的拉布拉多 ～故事挺好～
7.5/10；被表演提升了整体质量的电影。A cliché，但完全可以为了Kline的表演再看一遍，他甚至把一些cheesy台词演绎得幽默而真诚。KST也很美，为了男女主角这片值得一看。喜欢亲情煽情片的不容错过= =
2013Feb27，上海吴中路，豆瓣梗概。
影片其实贯穿了一条主线：那就是父爱如山。影片最后主角那份对生命的意义的诠释可谓是至善至美。影片69分多钟的时候那首米雪儿的歌，让我想起了《真爱至上》里艾玛哭泣的场景。同样是一首歌。《真》里是悲伤的情绪，而在这部电影里则是美好的情绪，两人热情相拥在夕阳下的大海边跳舞，唯美的很。倾听
如今看来，故事虽然老套，但情感却依旧感人，而且父亲在里面的台词，几乎可以用经典来形容。
这海报真好看~
“我常把自己当做一个房子，我就是住在里面的人，不必很大，不必很漂亮，只需是我的，我成为了该成为的人，给自己建立生活，给自己建立一个房子，这里就是你想扎根的地方，建在岩石上，朝海，听，听……”
蛮值得一看的电影，即使是生命就在建造屋子的过程中渐渐随着夕阳消失在地平线，亲情还有爱情依然会绽放无限余晖！！！
一个完整温馨的故事，一座有血有肉的房子~
活着，像下一秒即将死去那样活着，爱一切爱你的人，要勇敢。有梦的时候，不顾一切去追寻，哪怕注定失败，也要倒在拼尽全力的尝试中。给自己一次生活的权利，为自己而活，一秒是自己的一秒，一生是自己的一生。